Building Joyful Memories with Nothing but Pocket Lint and Hope
Our family has been in struggle mode since my health declined to the point of no longer being able to work outside the home, in the spring of 2015 while pregnant with my last child.
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Two pregnancies basically back to back decimated my already declining health. The years since then have had a lot of ups and downs. Financial valleys in which we were literally saved by an online community we are so very blessed to have.
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2019 has been relentless for us and our entire extended community, medical and dental emergencies, surprise bills, predatory fee practices biting us again and again, on top of the death of my little brother have completely taxed us this year.
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Likewise, so many of my friends, chosen family, and beloveds have slowly slid from struggling to live, to struggling to stay alive, this year.
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That meme 10$ we have been passing around has become 5$ then 2$ then .57¢
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A crisis is brewing in our communities, what happens when none of the people who care are able to help, and those that could help have turned their faces away?
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We all know what is brewing there. We are expected to fight our hardest to avoid going over that cliff, but never given the tools to stay on solid ground.
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So things have been in slow slide mode, stable but always fading away.
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still the holidays were looking ok, broke, nothing spare, but ok, until a temporary financial crisis took what little financial stability we had for two months.
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Two months
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We should be getting back on track by mid to late January…So useful for Yule, right?
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*grim laugh*
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So I’ve been thinking about ways I can set the mood, give my kids a happy holiday, with absolutely nothing.
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Hey necessity is the parent of invention, right?
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The first thing I want to do, is put up the giftmas tree sooner rather than later and keep it up longer. I think this weekend might be perfect for that.
Then I think every weekend, we will try to do a simple holiday craft and/or make a stove top/no bake holiday treat.
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I also want to try to take more time to go to free-ish fun like libraries, parks in warmer days, and getting out to take advantage of our membership at the children’s museum.I
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We can watch silly holiday specials, read some holiday themed stories as well.
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Of course even a lot of those things cost money or require we spend money on transportation or food to partake, it’s never ending.
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I am hoping I can do one smaller thing a week between now and late January or early Feb, we can make some memories worth having, and minimize the financial and emotional impact of being in crisis during the holidays.
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May the odds be ever in our Favor.